Gray Divorce Financial Planning
Divorcing near retirement is not the same financial problem as divorcing twenty years earlier. There is less time to recover from a decision that turns out badly, and most of the money is already committed to a retirement that was planned for two people.
Heritage works out what the terms on the table would actually mean — after tax, year by year, for the retirement that follows. Your attorney handles the legal side. We handle the arithmetic underneath it, while the terms can still move.
Two equal shares of the same assets can support very different retirements.
The difference is in which accounts the money sits in, what tax is owed to get at it, what the house takes to keep, and where health coverage comes from until Medicare. Most of that is invisible in the column of figures being divided.
Those consequences are set when the terms are agreed and felt for the next thirty years.
Six Financial Questions to Answer When Divorcing Near Retirement
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1. Is half the 401(k) actually half?
Rarely. A dollar in a traditional 401(k), a dollar in a Roth and a dollar in a brokerage account are taxed differently when you spend them and become available at different times. Splitting every account down the middle ends the argument quickly. It does not produce two equivalent outcomes, and the gap widens the longer the money has to last.
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2. How much more tax will you pay on the same income?
Filing alone means narrower brackets and a smaller standard deduction. The withdrawal that was comfortable for a couple can land higher for one person, so it takes a larger gross withdrawal to end up with the same money to spend. Over a twenty-year retirement that difference is not a rounding error.
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3. What can you claim on a former spouse’s record?
If the marriage lasted at least ten years, a benefit on their record may be available — and claiming it takes nothing away from them. Most people either do not know the provision exists or assume the divorce ended it. Whether you qualify, what the benefit would be worth against your own, and when to claim it are three separate questions.
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4. Where does health coverage come from until Medicare?
If you are covered by a spouse’s employer plan, that ends. What replaces it is usually the largest new line in the budget, and it runs until Medicare starts — for someone divorcing at 58, that is seven years of premiums that have to come from the settlement or from the portfolio.
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5. What does keeping the house actually cost?
This is the decision most often made on feel rather than arithmetic, which is why it is the one worth seeing in full.
- What you gain
- The house, and not moving while everything else is changing.
- What you give up
- The mortgage, the taxes and the upkeep, plus whatever a buyout takes — money that is then neither invested nor available for anything else.
- What could change the answer
- How long you actually intend to stay, what the buyout would cost, and whether the rest of the settlement leaves enough liquid to carry it.
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6. Can one household still afford the retirement two people planned?
Two people retiring together share a roof, a car policy and a utility bill. Two households share none of it, usually while dividing the same assets. Sometimes the retirement still works on a different date, or at a different number. Which of those it is can be worked out now, while the terms can still move.
Work Through the Six Questions With Our Free Guide
Our fifteen-page guide takes each of the six questions above in turn: what your accounts are really worth, taxes, Social Security, healthcare before Medicare, the house, and whether you can still retire. It ends with the questions to ask your attorney before your settlement is finalized.
It comes with Questions to Bring to Your Divorce Attorney Before Finalizing the Financial Terms, a one-page list to bring to your next meeting with counsel.
How Heritage Helps
Divorce financial planning and retirement planning are the same work done at a harder moment. Getting through the settlement is not the objective. The objective is a retirement on the other side of it that holds up.
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Step 1: Start with the actual numbers
The accounts, the income, what the household spends, the retirement date that was assumed, and the terms currently being discussed.
We do not determine what is marital property or what either person is legally entitled to.
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Step 2: Run the versions on the table
Whatever you and your attorney are weighing, modelled after tax: what each version does to the accounts, the house, health coverage, the cash you can reach, and the year you could stop working.
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Step 3: Rebuild the plan for one household
How much there is to spend, when retirement becomes possible, which accounts the money comes from in which order, and what the portfolio has to do to support it.
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Step 4: Stay for the part that comes after
The legal process ends. The financial consequences do not.
We can continue as your ongoing retirement-planning and wealth-management advisor when the relationship is a fit.
Who This Is For
This is for people divorcing at or near retirement, where the retirement accounts, a pension, the house or the income they were meant to produce are most of what is being divided.
Heritage Wealth is based in Naperville, Illinois. We can work with clients facing divorce elsewhere in the country when our registration and service model permit it, and local clients are welcome to meet with us in person.
If the divorce is settled and what you want is ordinary retirement planning, start at retirement planning instead.
The decree is the beginning of the financial work
Retirement planning, investment management and tax planning sit in one relationship here, which matters most in the years after the file closes — when the accounts have to be rebuilt into an income, and the tax picture is one person’s rather than two.
Meet the team
David Fortosis, CFP®
Founder and lead advisor
Charles Freeman, CFA, EA
Investment research and portfolio strategy
Tracy Furman
Tax consultant
Jeff Goodman
Retirement consultant
Questions People Ask About Divorce Financial Planning
What does a divorce financial planner do?
A divorce financial planner helps you understand the financial consequences of the options being discussed in your divorce. That can include retirement accounts, taxes, the house, healthcare, Social Security, cash flow and whether the retirement plan still works afterward. The planner does not replace the divorce attorney or determine what either spouse is legally entitled to.
Do I need a financial planner if I already have a divorce attorney?
Possibly, because the jobs are different. Your attorney handles the legal issues and settlement. A financial planner can model what the financial options may mean after tax and how they affect retirement, cash flow and investments. Heritage works alongside counsel rather than duplicating legal work.
When should I bring in a financial planner during a divorce?
Before major financial terms are final is usually the most useful time. That gives you an opportunity to understand the consequences while options may still be open. If the divorce is already final, planning can still help rebuild retirement income, investments, taxes and cash flow around the new household.
Can a financial planner tell me whether a divorce settlement is fair?
No. Heritage does not determine legal fairness, entitlement or what a court should award. We can show how the financial terms being discussed may affect taxes, retirement income, liquidity, investments and long-term retirement feasibility so that you and your attorney can evaluate the decision with better financial information.
What does Heritage charge for divorce financial planning?
The first conversation is complimentary and is used to determine whether Heritage is a good fit for the work you need. If we recommend moving forward, we will explain the scope and fee before any engagement begins.
Can Heritage work with me if I do not live in Illinois?
Heritage is based in Naperville, Illinois and may work with clients in other states when our registration and notice-filing requirements allow it. We can confirm whether we are able to work with you during the initial conversation.
Related Resources
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Dividing Retirement Accounts in Divorce →
Why equal balances can produce very different outcomes.
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The Divorce Settlement That Looked Equal →
Two halves of equal face value, compared after tax.
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Can I Afford to Keep the House After Divorce? →
What a buyout trades away, and whether one income carries the house.
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Can I Still Retire After Divorce? →
Test the settlement against the retirement you planned.
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Health Insurance After Divorce →
Bridging the years to Medicare, and what the coverage costs the plan.
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What Is a QDRO, and Who Files It? →
Who prepares the order and how to know it is done.
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The Gray Divorce Guide →
The six questions in one free guide, with the list to take to your attorney.
Find out what the terms would actually mean
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